Judgement Daze

   How sad to hear about so many women, and some men too, who have lived for years with the frightening memories of being sexually abused. There have been so many reports of those fearful of talking about it because of many reasons: they will be scorned, shamed, doubted, ostracized.

   How sickening to know that many abusers have got away with these assaults. Many going on to be prominent citizens, boasting of their achievements, while getting away with such vile behavior.

   How strong it has been for the survivors of these attacks to come forward now, sharing their stories - being heard, being validated, becoming a beacon for others to stand strong.

   How cruel is it that so many call these survivors liars, and denigrate them. Why must they try to squash these voices? Why must they be so angry toward them?

   “Therefore judge nothing before the appointed time; wait till the Lord comes. He will bring to light what is hidden in darkness and will expose the motives of men’s hearts.”  I Cor 4:5

   It is difficult for many of us to not place judgment when we hear the chaotic responses to these troubling stories. Yet we must make judgements about what is right versus what is wrong; make decisions about setting up a process that is fair and just for all sides; determine what is in the best interest overall. Due process. Do right. Let survivors be heard.       Theresa M




A Seasonal Day





Winter breezes might bring sneezes,
or full-blown colds, you know.
And springtime rains clog up the drains, 
but warm winds are better than snow.

Ah, summertime is sublime,
there are no finer days.
Although the fall I do recall
has a lovely sight to gaze.

But in any season the only reason
that made a very fine day,
are those when friends
spent days on end
before they went their way.


Theresa M.
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Before the Fall

   There is going to be an early fall. That’s the impression I get, seeing the wooly fat worms moseying along the back of my house. And the huge increase in spider webs, stretched here to way out there on my porches and in my garage. Yes, when these little creatures come visiting, fall has come early.

   There are a number of things to do to prepare for fall and winter. Of course, the usual, covering up the a/c outdoor unit, cleaning furnace vents and filter. Re-mulching and trimming certain hedges.

   But my nightmare work is the neighbor’s black walnut tree. Humongous, overgrown, swaying over my back yard, garage, and part of my house roof. This creature is a beautiful place in the spring and summer for the birds to nest and rest. And for the shade it provides. But come late August and September, “Boom!!” The walnuts become missiles, bouncing all over the roof (night and day). And if there are high winds, it’s an all-out assault!

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   Yes, I’ve been hit on the head by one - and it hurts! I believe it is a hard-hat area for safety (though I’ve yet to get one). It’s cracked my bird feeders and bird bath. I have to protect my dog when she has to toilet.

   The owner has never bothered to cut down the tree - too expensive. And tenant after tenant says the same, although two separate tenants did trim a few limbs around my electric lines. God bless them!

   But the war of the walnuts is not just from bombardment. These black walnuts are encased in a thick green shell. The longer the nuts sit in the yard, the creepier they become, decomposing, with little worms crawling out. Ugh! So there are several rounds of a back-breaking chore of raking them up and bagging and dragging them to the alley for pickup. With back problems and arthritis, this task gets more difficult each year. But it must be done! Can’t have those slimy little worms all over the yard! And of course when grass grows again, it makes it difficult to cut with all those walnuts everywhere!

   Just when it seems the task is all over, the rest of the leaves from that tree (and other neighboring trees) decide they’re ready to fall too. So I get them raked up.

   I wait for snow close to wintertime. But if I’m lucky the twigs and the needles from all these trees will take their turn in falling to my backyard. Alas, the black walnuts, the leaves, the twigs, and the needles couldn’t agree to all come down at once - they each take their own sweet time.

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   Year in, year out. Rake it, bag it, drag it. And none of it, not one leaf, one nut, one twig, one needle is from a tree in my own yard. It’s a lot of work. Just think if I received payment for it! I’d be rich!

   But that’s how it is. Life and seasons making changes and cycles. I have to take care of the fall before I fall! Yet I do appreciate the trees, granting birds’ rest, and plenty of shade.     Theresa M.

Signs of the Times

Everything is not always as it appears to be.
Don't feed into the hyperbole.
We can still keep our sign to say
the simple message of "Okay!"

   I tweeted this Sept 5, 2018 after reading various remarks/responses to a “sign” that was reportedly to have been made at Kavanaugh SCOTUS hearings. Without going into all the political correctness of who did/said/saw what, in short:

A woman behind Kavanaugh was sitting with a sideways “OK” sign made with her right hand while crossing her arms. It was an unusual way to display one’s hand in that position. But apparently someone out in twitterland reported it was a white supremacist sign, and accused her of sending a message advocating for them.

   Is this really a sign that group uses? Maybe, I’ve seen other pictures of what are supposed to be their followers posing that way. Who knows if this woman at Kavanaugh’s hearing intended it for nefarious signaling. If it’s true, too bad. This sign for a long time has been simply for stating “okay!” I would not want to see use of this symbol changed to something that is not okay. Let’s not give so much attention to people who want to point us in the wrong direction.

   Just as I would not want the two fingers pointing up, with thumb crossing last two fingers as a peace sign be changed to something crude or evil. Or how about a thumbs up sign being decimated? No, no, no. We need to keep positive signs/symbols to continue - keep things decent and respectable. And while we’re at it, keep that middle finger where it belongs! Theresa M.

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America Has a Lot to Learn

   We are a very proud nation. We are strong. We’ve fought for independence and freedom. We’ve fought for other nations to have a better way of life too.

   But that pride can sometimes be a sore spot. Well, more than that, it can cause us to not only fall (as in Proverb 16:18), it can cause us to fail.

   Americans often take a look at the positive ways we have grown, which is a good thing. We’ve come a long way financially, industrially; we’ve built cities, infra-structures; we’ve negotiated trade with many nations. We’ve made a lot of progress in science and technology. All well and good.
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   But in looking at our nation’s faults/shortcomings, we seem to only creep along slowly at making improvements to accepting our strength as a nation of diversity.

   Starting out with taking over land that belonged to Indigenous People, killing them or reneging on treaties; with slavery becoming a for-profit business, we have mistreatment of human beings (in many, many ways - too much to go into here). We’ve had strong people, some leaders, some “common” men who have brought to the forefront the need for change - for America to have laws that protect human beings, to improve their way of life, to give other equal opportunities.

   Who could be against something so good as to making America a land that is caring, loving, respectful? Many, many people could and have been against it. And continue to be. They believe they are better or more deserving for whatever reasons, likely due to irrational fears of losing what they have or hope to have.

   Pride is not alone in our failure. Greed is rampant also. Right along with envy, jealousy. We see it every day with corporations’ increasing profits, charging us more and more; in tax breaks for the wealthy, tax back-breaking for the middle-class. We see it in politics, where priorities are placed on the money donations one can receive over the needs of the people they represent.
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   We have seen it throughout our history. The pride, the greed, the envy stomping over the dignity of human beings, sometimes squelching by way of murder. These arrogant aggravators have gone way beyond the simple goal of looking for a better way of life. They have gone past that to trying to own it all: own people, land, property, money. For what? Really, for what? How does that improve anyone’s life?
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   America has a lot to learn. Somehow we got sucked into this illusion that materialism and individualism is the goal of all goals. As if walking all over others to keep increasing one’s wealth is the purpose of life.

   Just stop already. Look around. What are we doing to one another? Why aren’t we walking on the same path? How have we come to this point in our lives where our priorities have gone so far off track?

   The spirit does not want. It only loves.           

   We have so much to learn. There is still time.           Theresa M