Precious Moment

   Living just for today is not an easy thing to do. The phrase “one day at a time” is a most notable one in the 12-step recovery programs. Even the Bible teaches us to “not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” -Matt 6:34.

   Apparently living outside of today, means we’ll likely be worrying if we’re looking ahead. Yeah, that just about fits. Even when I’m just planning something, those “but-what-ifs” start strolling in, slanting their little question-mark heads to the left, to the right, then they’re bobbling back and forth, confounding me with potential problems!

stefan baudy on flickr.com

   In visiting the past, these pesky patrons of inquests turn into “maybe I should’ve” with those little frowny faces focused on “should’ve-ing” right into “and if I had, what if” again!  It turns my whole life into a complete fiction!

   What a waste of time (plus energy of the brain) it is. We can’t change it, so no I shouldn’t have. I did whatever it was I did at that time - for better or worse (yes, even those of you who said this as your wedding vows!) - and live with the consequences, and learn from it!    [see “Living Lessons of Life” blog]

   What we choose for today is the same - live with it into tomorrow, learn from it. Try to go on and grow on.
   
   Yes, there may be a multitude of problems now going on, debts to pay, lives to care for. Sure it’s hard to stay focused on today - sometimes holding onto a moment at a time is needed. Then I think of another verse in Matt 6, number 27: “Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?” 

   Worrying and projecting problems into the future, or regretting the past will steal time from our lives.

   Precious moment - the here and now - what’s it worth to you? Theresa M.
                       
 by Hartwig HKD https://www.flickr.com/photos/h-k-d/

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